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 Hey blog! 

Today I will be talking about friendship and womanhood. 

There is a friend I have made in the last year or so. Well, we have known each other for a little longer than a year but our friendship is still relatively new I think..

We had seen each other once or twice at parties and heard of each other in passing and It wasn't until an unfortunate event occurred that we bonded over our mutual love for chisme. 

Then from that one conversation sprouted a few days of texting, off and on and all those other social media exclusive interactions. We hung out once, and went to the mall and I came home and raved to my boyfriend about "making a potentially really good friend" 

I will say now, that I genuinely believe I have found a good friend in Hailey! If she is reading this, do not think i am a freak please. 

As my loyal readers would know, it can sometimes be hard for me to read how people feel about me, if they like me or don't. Especially people my age. But, Hailey has always been a clear friend. She has been very genuinely herself, and it made it easy to be me! I never felt that weird need to be someone else to impress her or try really hard to be liked. Which is super rare.

Even now, we text each other maybe a handful of times during the day, sometimes inconsistently through the week but i can almost guarantee that i can text her anything that's on my mind and vice versa, and there won't be some weirdness or "why haven't we talked" strangeness that can occur amongst friends. 

That is one of the beautiful things about friendships rooted in womanhood. We are friends with no unnecessary expectations. Just genuine care, support and fun! No strange feelings or weird vibes girls your age can sometimes carry. She is definitely not that way. She is the kind of girl who would tell a stranger she loved her outfit and you'd know truly meant it. You know exactly what I mean. 

This is all to say, It is important to have a few girls in your life you can just rely on. Relying mainly on them to just remain an honest and kind friend I think that is essential for proper development. There is nothing like that feeling.  

So although we have not been friends for forever, it is surely a friendship i would love to continue! That is if she doesn't see me as a total freak for enjoying our friendship. Imagine she is reading this now like "Guys this girl is mad weird we like just met...."

Anyways... See ya! ◡̈